It sucks when you dislike ur parents and think they hate u...and it sucks to be a bad parent without realising then actually regretting it when its too late.
im not a parent hahaha i know so wateva i say in this entry wouldnt be 100% correct for sure haha
but sometimes..parents say tjhings like ur stupid or why cant u do better or wateva like that..sometimes i wonder if they have ever thought bout that it is because of THEM that their kid isnt doing well?
If the parent was more supportive and created a nicer or happier atmosphere at home for the child to come home to everyday, i bet the child will have eventually improve in different ways. I make them sound liek a machine LOL
but ye..and i really do think that deep down, all parents purely love their child even if they dont say or show it...
and i know that parents tend to not show that soft side of theirs because they dont want their child to think they can do whateva and their parent will be okay with it. But i think a balance of both softness and strictness is good...i think its nice that when a parent lectures a child or shouts at them, they sit them down calmly and explain to them what they did wrong and why...and itd be very nice if parents apologise to their child when they are wrong..because respect and manners start in the family first.
haha well tats a child's review of parents
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hehhe speaking about parents... I've learned not to hold a grudge with them whether they are wrong or right. I remember getting upset at my mum for 2 weeks, and didn't speak to her AT ALL.
ReplyDeleteBut yeah.. I don't think that parents should apologize when they do wrong... They are our parents after all :( And in the end, it's not like we always apologise at what we did wrong, or sometimes, what we do wrong which we believe is to be right :((
xo
haha i guess some people do see the apology part differently. They dont have to say "sorry" or "i apologise" but at least admit they are wrong lol by implying it actionwise or something
ReplyDeletehaha i hold grudges for a lil while then i get over it..=S ive never..not speak to my parents for such a long time before lol o.o mm i might jst cry or hide in my room and dont let anyone in lol..xD haha i constantly talk back at my dad if he is wrong. I didnt know it was rude when i did it in primary..but even though i know its rude now i still do it - coz he is wrong lol but i try not to do it as much coz usually it turns into a huge right and mum cries=[ so im learning to tolerate it and calmly talk to him bout it if i have to